Why Women For Casual sex is not?

If you promise a man sex, either tacitly or directly going to have your attention, no doubt ... Unfortunately it is rarely their attention only what we want, we want your heart right?

Having sex with a man is not going to make you fall in love with him and said, give the little treasure to find a boyfriend does not get you anything, you're going to engage emotionally with him and you can do to lose the interest you have in you . Remember that time you have for a man interested in you as a person (not someone with whom to have sex) is the time it takes to go with him to bed. If you do not then known, is likely to lack interest in it (that's its main purpose and you gave it).

Some women begin to have casual sex intimacy and avoid emotional burnout implies a real relationship.

Others do it to get closer to a particular individual, they pretend that sex does not matter, until one day realize that it is super enamored with a man who does not see them as nothing more than "friends with benefits "," "loving friend" and the worst tramp. And that's where the tears come, claims and phrases like "a jerk", "how little mother! Nothing more I use "," do not know to treat a woman, "blah blah blah.

LADIES: Why jerk? What little mother ... what? It was assumed that you were also using it, so it was "casual sex" and so know how to treat a woman that's why they cry so much. If you never mentioned your feelings so as not to scare and start your casual sex encounters, secretly hoping to become something else, which was not honest are you ... what makes the universe that in jerk? You're upset that you could not manipulate through sex and that was fairly predictable.

Some others do because they have been hurt in the past and believe that keeping sex at "casual" will magically avoid any unhappy hurt her again.

Well, for those who see it this way: You can not help or hurt you, nor feel rejected reducing your relationships with men to casual sexual encounters. Love hurts, not always, but sometimes you have a partner and while exposed every day to get hurt ... how many things do you think your guys have forgiven those who have just turned 40 years of marriage? How many times have hurt each other in so many years?

Even if you tell yourself that there are no feelings through or you're not involved in any manner that is not physical, women are "wired" or built by our DNA to develop relationships when we have sex. We are made for pregnant women, what makes us no choice but to be looking for quality partners. Mind you, do not say that we are natural monogamous because in fact they are, but that's another topic ...

When you have sex with a man, your body releases oxytocin, also known as the "hormone of love" (also produced in childbirth to ease labor pains, prevent bleeding and during lactation), combined with the hormone estrogen ( female hormone) produces a very strong effect that results in bonding. This is how we want our children magically from the moment we are born and beautiful (even though we all know that babies are horrible).

Yes I know that men also secrete oxytocin during orgasm, but unfortunately for women, high testosterone levels hombresreducen almost minimizes the effect of the "love hormone". In fact it is the testosterone that after orgasm, men or want to sleep or need some space, whereas we we want to talk and bare our souls.

So unhappy that so much itching goes from flower to flower without remorse or any feeling.

Of course there are women who do very well handled and very casual sex is probably producing more testosterone than most women (and tend to behave like men in all aspects of your life) or his psychology is stronger their biology.

Men are programmed to seek sexual variety to ensure its continued reproduction genetic line (like the most ... really there are guys who do not know what they want to play) and in his tiny head (if the little girl with they think when they want sex) believe that the variety of partners is the best option. So, for them sex can be a purely physical act that has nothing to do with feelings.

And before you jump that have thrived in the conquest of a man through sex ... I did not say it is not possible, I say that is unlikely, every rule has exceptions. Oh and not necessarily because you're a teacher is the erotic arts, it may be caught in a moment you emotionally difficult or is a guy whose testosterone levels are below normal, it can also be someone who can not be alone and were in the right place at the right time.

Physical intimacy is very easy to achieve with a man, not so emotional, that's a real challenge, so it is very risky to start with what matters most, not forgiveness, so all they care about: sex.

Of course the dream of men is a nymphomaniac, but with a different set of qualities that the ideal is that the know before you to deliver "your flower."

Take your time before going to bed with him is rewarding and increases the likelihood that you are not the only one who gets emotionally involved. This is neither male nor neither arbitrary nor dated, and my opinion is BIOLOGY, peléate with it.

Total men pigs or so (I can not believe I just wrote that) and women not so good and beautiful ... a matter of hormones.

Dr. Terry Crenshaw (psychologist and sexologist) in his book "The Alchemy of Love and Lust" (which I highly recommend it to people all over the universe should be mandatory, and I used as references for this post) says that many Sometimes we would save much suffering and years of therapy if we asked each other to Charles Darwin, Freud instead of ... yes, Sigmund.

Additional Fact: Men are like rounded hips because the "cave" inside them tells them that means your body is able to gestate a baby and big boobs (pigs) that will not lack food for their kids .

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